“This is the case of cheating husband. I ve got a couple here today that that seemed to have it together they both have jobs. They ve been together for while. But something just isn t going right let s see we can figure out what it is court is now in session.
The honorable judge lynn toler presiding good day ladies and gentlemen i m here today with corey umbels and shanice umbels. Mr. And mrs. Umbels who have been together for seven years married for the last four and you have one child together.
But you do not want to be get together. Anymore you both have claims filed against each other and i will get to that momentarily. But before i do mr. Umbels let me start with you why don t you tell me a little bit about your relationship.
And what brought us here today. I m so from the beginning. She knew. I was a very sexually driven person uh huh and she knew after we had the baby.
My needs weren t being met so i began to seek sex outside of the marriage. Now when did you did you have a baby before after you got married after after you got married you say not enough sex after that happened not enough not at all did you guys have a conversation or two about that um yes. We did when she was seven months. Pregnant.
Round about i have reached out to an ex and she was um in a different state. We had went through counseling. Because of that and i explained to her my my sex drive is really high. I d like to have sex.
Very very often in the beginning. It was that way we were having sex. Two three times a day every single day. I kind of dwindled down to maybe you know once a day then i was like maybe three times a week.
I gotcha so my question was you have no clue right no to a question that you were supposed to be answered. You don t even remember that i asked a question. No no yeah. The question was did you have a conversation about the lack of sex.
Yeah. When you started to have concerns. Yes. Well actually yes.
We do okay. I conveyed to her hey. When you rejected me sexually it makes me feel some type of way. That s why we went to counseling for that uh huh.
Having that discussion about you know our sexuality. How often and different things like that what happened. And it was it was met with anger attitude like well you know i ve just had a baby you know or while she was pregnant. It was you know i m moody.
I m this i m tired etc. I m like what you just can lay there you know if that s the case like because she knows she knew like my sex drive was really really high. We just know we had multiple conversations about okay. Ms.
Umbels is that an accurate reflection of the things. That occurred. Um sorta like we did go to counseling. We had a conversation.
But i felt like i had just i was pregnant. I had a miscarriage right before that so i wanted to do any and everything that i could to like stay healthy to make sure that you know nothing nothing was going wrong so when he told me that he it didn t come off as when you don t have sex with me. I m gonna have sex with somebody else because if it would have came off like that then i would have said like okay well i m not gonna lose my man for that so she ll say that but we had that discussion as well about if you don t have sex with me whether or not you re sick whether or not if you don t have sex with me. Whether or not you re sick whether or not you ve just had a mayoress miscarriage whether or not you re currently pregnant whether or not you re tired whether or not you re upset not happy unfulfilled.
If you don t have sex with me. I m going elsewhere. You had that conversation. Yeah because we discussed me how i lust after other women.
She knew from mom. Oh..
I have another son about different woman. So you knew what that situation was i was repeatedly cheating on her as well what if she got sick what people. With a woman. She got sick had had it edie had shingles and for a month.
She couldn t have sex would you cheat on her no that s different so when there were when there were medical concerns like when she had the miscarriage different things like that i was understanding in that it s not that you re tired or you you just can t do it. So that s my understanding. It s just weird yeah. She s physically capable and unwilling right when it s just amiss come on now like kinda.
I mean i had just had a baby. I was working full time long hours so if i knew that if i didn t have settled with him that he would be upset. So i would try to like maybe get up. He had to be at work at 6 00.
I would try to get up 5 00 in the morning try to you know make sure that we have sex then or you know what when he comes home. But a lot of the times. Because he was doing you know cheating when he comes home. It was strictly the video game.
We ll talk for a little bit in between you know in between the video game. We ll talk for a little bit and then that was it so no what did you do to potentially increase the sex you got when you weren t getting enough. What did you do i like as far as with her it was a long conversation like it was it was a topic of discussion that we constantly talked about rejecting sexual. What are the reasons.
No what did you do anything that she asked she would say that i wasn t doing this or i wasn t doing that but i always was getting our little gears. We re going on vacations here let s go to seattle for the weekend. Let s go to vegas let s go do these type of things to try to keep that romance part yeah. I was gonna be faithful to me then go on trips and yeah that woman don t want to go on trip.
Because she s usually in charge all of the doings. So what she wants is a little romance at home kindness take care of the baby you know when she s exhausted that kind of thing you know right out i work two jobs. I will come home and have my son all day long all the time even when he was first was born i worked overnight and will come home to our baby. All day long working 1012 hours at night.
I was so yes he would come home from work. And we didn t we didn t have a babysitter at that time but as soon as he told me look i can t do this i don t want to be with him all day. I started looking for a babysitter and i got him in babysitting. You know i m like so then when i go to work i dropped him off so he had all day to sleep or do whatever he needed to do i got to that was at the end that was you know six months after i ve been coming home in so you cheated with one women with one woman with a lot of women what 27 women with 27 okay.
But so i m not a sex addict. I don t want to say that it s more about it s more about that that first experience with the woman when a woman experiences me for the first time in her reaction that s amore. What i m a teen then so you re about to conquest yeah. During the twenty seven different women about a year so on world time.
We were we were we were getting new phones at the time and i was transferring her data from the old phone to the new phone right and i just so happened to come across this text message of her with this guy you know so i asked her you know hey what s up with this or whatever. And she burst. All we just was flirting was this before the 20s and there s women our doors was like during that period during the toys that women during their the nerve about this thing okay. But so i m not a sex addict.
I don t want to say that it s more about it s more about that that first experience with the woman when a woman experiences me for the first time in her reaction. So you re about the conquest. Yeah. The conquest so you found a message in her phone sometime during the course of this twenty seven woman expedition you were on yeah.
But what happened in it what what did the messages say um. It was just like oh like i don t want to do this anymore or you know i m sorry etc. Just just it was just a few little messages. It wasn t an entire thread.
It was a screenshot of i don t want to do this anymore. Etc. So i asked her you know hey what s up with this so because at the time. I hadn t came clean about the cheating right he just was that was in the middle of it was on the down low yeah.
It was on it was on the dalit. She was suspect. But is every single day. What s up with you what s going on like you come home you re not the same person.
What is going on and it s nothing i m tired. I m tired. I m working long so you were cheating man lying. Yeah.
And then you found a screenshot that said. I don t want to do this anymore..
You asked her about it what did she tell you she told. Me oh. We just was flirting. It was harmless.
Just you know something to do. While she was at work etc. Etc. Just little stuff like that.
But i just. I kind of had this weird feeling like there s more to that story like tell me what s going on tell me what s going on so. What did you ultimately find out that um. Her and the guy had slept together okay.
Did you sleep with this other guy. It s starting to tell me whatever it started off because i knew something was going on with him the way he was coming home. It was just you know i got nothing. I was asked him why do you even like me anymore do you even do you want to be with me.
Like what is it i don t feel loved i don t feel nothing no no emotional effect. I oh nothing so then i started you know venting to this guy and wouldn t they let do another it happened and so. But i felt like you know it was more on his side like he pressured it a little more. But you know it happened yeah.
Yeah. And so when he asked me about it i lied. Because he asked me. And it was like i was i was gonna tell him i just need to figure out how i was gonna tell him right so then when he put me on the spot.
I didn t i didn t know i didn t so i lied about it i did and i lied for awhile. And you know he s so when you found out about this guy did you come clean about the other women it s different when you re caught i mean i m just being honest. See if tina. She never would have caught me it never would have she never would not in the midst of her lying about it well i came clean with the woman that i was seeing at the time and let her know hey you know i m seeing this other woman gave her the details of that thinking that that would kind of push her to open up more about it.
But she still was lying still was saying. Oh it wasn t nothing. It was this it was that so then i was at work one day and i caught her and say hey when i get home. I need to talk to you i don t want to tell you text message or phone or anything like that i need to come and talk to you and all day.
She s what is it what is it i m coming to your job. What is it what is it what is it then when we got home i let her know hey it wasn t just her it was her in 21. Other women at that time it was 21. But i was angry because when he told me he didn t tell me that and he dragged me through it before he told me about the first person.
I had to apologize to him daily. There were certain things that he wanted me to tell him to see you all that yeah knowing that you had been sleeping around and lying to her for months. You were going to torture her about the one little small sin. She committed yeah.
But like i said it s it was i was trying to pull it out of her stand. Why wasn t caught it was a difference weiner. It s different when you re caught. I mean i m just being honest.
She if she never would have caught me it never would have she never would not continue that saying like i never did anything she continued to lie to you successfully it would have been fine and you re fine and doing what you re doing because you re cheating and lying successfully. No only until you cheat and get caught are you obligated to tell her the truth. No. But she knew i knew and i didn t have any proof because he s very very very smooth.
She knew you were caught you just didn t know it she didn t have proof. She knew you you were guilty. She just couldn t prove it in court can i tell you something sir you are just just incensed by her sin. Though it is miniscule in comparison to your ways of world certain extent.
But also it wasn t just peaches and cream for the majority of the relationship. It was me bowing down. What do you need from me. What do you want from me.
What will change this and it just was attitude attitude attitude bickering at points. I always get i will get on my knees. And be like just stop it where you act. A brother i mean the sex aside.
Where your were you a good partner or were you where were you one of these spouses. That was man all the time not all the time sometimes i will get upset yes..
Because i ll come home. And it s strictly video game or i get no attention or nothing. So sometimes i do nag him yes in the beginning. You we were fine like we were good we got is fine in the beginning.
We long every. I mean everything was good so yes. I do nag him sometimes it s not an all day thing. No nagging its attitude.
It s pointless attitude like and when i m trying to fix the problem on which i pay how can we fix this what do i need to do and it s nothing. I don t know no ask her what was the problem. The problem was you feel felt unattended to do unloved. I just felt like i was we were roommates.
Only that s out later yeah. I m talking about the six years before the last year. That s what i m talking about all of that beforehand the whole matter because i m real spiritual. So i felt like the only thing that was keeping that together was the fact that i couldn t leave you for four you have an attitude all the time i couldn t leave you for those type of problems.
Different. Things like tell those women that they re one or twenty seven do you let them know well. How do you how do you get them baffled. You it ll it ll be like oh.
You know i ll be out of gas station. I ll see a beautiful woman pumping the gas or something you know i do tattoos. So is i have a i had a easy outlet. You know hey you know did you let him know that you were married and this was just a one time thing.
Yeah. They knew he was married no just went to get me it just went. Oh. I see what you re some of them were multiple times.
I gotcha. I gotcha 27 went multiple times you tell me about the 500 you are seeking for mrs. Umbels as you leave her here today video game controllers and tattoo equipment. Tell me about that so during the during the arguing and different things you know control.
The fly hit the wall shatter into a million pieces being thrown by her yeah. Playstations. She came home one time. I was about to do a tattoo on his girl.
She didn t know i had slept with the girl because i know the type of women that he the way that godson and so i m just gonna do the tattoos. She comes in the house sherpa. She kicked all my tattoo stuff equipment all over the place destroyed. It you know you want a hundred dollars for him for some sentimental sentimental jewelry.
Yeah. Tell me about that my mother gave me a necklace and when he got upset. He snatched it off my neck. And it broke did you do that and it s upset.
Me oh. My goodness never ends on my man. Never ends on now that was a weak moment. For me.
Yeah. You have a lot of weak moments. Let me say this just on a general tip. I think controllers and game stations are getting a lot of dudes in trouble.
I come in here. All the time and a woman has lost her mind because her man has been sucked into a game and and and you know the guys will talk about how they have this need. And that need and this need and that want and then they still have a childlike affection for a toy and get so deeply immersed in that toy that they can t take care of the man s business of being with a woman and when i say when you been with a woman you with her emotionally you re with her physically you re with her financially you re with her intellectually. We are some deep people we are not simple boxes.
There are a lot of layers to explore and you miss the whole entire fix you a meal will never lay next to you in bed. And who will never carry your child. But the woman who does all that gets the leftovers. But i ll put the game.
I ll put the game down then you picked up the women you satisfy yourself and you satisfy yourself continuously there will be no recovery in this matter it is so ordered you ” ..
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